I sit now in the living room writing and drinking tea while little Coquette purrs herself to sleep in my lap. You do not need the soft murmurs of monetary wealth to guide your life to happiness.
"There is never any ending to Paris and the memory of each person who has lived in it differs from that of any other. We always returned to it no matter who we were nor how it was changed nor with what difficulties nor with what ease it could be reached. It was worth it and we received a return for whatever we brought to it." Hemingway
30.10.11
I sit now in the living room writing and drinking tea while little Coquette purrs herself to sleep in my lap. You do not need the soft murmurs of monetary wealth to guide your life to happiness.
29.10.11
| Taken of the house the following day. |
Fall Break. Although most of the students in my program are traveling to other countries this week, I decided to spend the first half of my break visiting a French family in La Flèche, a small town in the countryside two hours train from Paris. My happiness increased with the widening land as we drove 45 minutes from the train station to their red trimmed house. Various colors of blossoming rosebushes spread around the house and the vegetable garden. The only color missing upon introduction was blue, its vibrancy hidden by dark clouds that drooled over the house through dinner. Dinner brought the boys' two friends and a pot of bubbling cheese fondue to the large wooden table, now supporting six baguette wielding persons and a clueless Texan. However, after my first taste of the fondue, I quickly mastered the art of skewering the baguette, plunging it into the warm, golden thickness with deft figure eight movements, and removing the steaming bread—without dripping on the table—to rest ever so briefly on my cool white plate. Words, French or English, were scarce in those first minutes. Once we realized our stomachs would fill before the pot was emptied, we slowed our pace and our tongues recalled the ability of speech. After fruit, the boys helped clean up before we headed into the fog and small streets of La Flèche. The only signs of life were a few street lights and a couple of friends who joined our party before reaching the favored pub.
21.10.11
Les enfants ont été sages hier. It is always better when we go to the park.
20.10.11
When the telephone screamed for Elisabet, calling her from the bowl of porridge and its fortress of vitamins (all organic and natural, of course), I leaned closer to my yaourt and müesli, praying for the sake of the person on the other line that it was not a sales call. “Ah hallo Margarite!” I relaxed, finishing breakfast just as the dry sweat from the morning run sent my body into shivers. Shower.
Now, I have 30 minutes before venturing again into the cold sun for a rendezvous with a Texan. At least there is sun…and Texans…Regardless, it’s only 51ºF in Paris today. For the sake of survival both indoors and on the street, I must surrender to a magasin of manteaux.
17.10.11
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| This photo of Clovis is from his website: http://www.clovislemusicopathe.com |
Elisabet made plans for dinner with a colleague tonight so she prepared dinner, set the table for three, and departed. Now there is a fourth place-setting…Approaching 9h, I discovered the reason for the late (I mean, later than the usual late) dinner hour and the additional plate. A spontaneous melody from the piano accompanied by Clovis on a large, green, musical cravate, drew Thais and I from our rooms. After the jocular tune, Gerhard (remember, his artist name is Clovis) introduced his copin with a title that translates to something like “Pat the fool” in English. When Clovis commenced tooting the musical buret sitting on Pat’s head and Pat’s piano bred fingers accompanied in perfect harmonization, I decided my hunger could wait.
14.10.11
Almost 40 years later, Elisabet payed a visit to her old friend. The 25 kilo and cancer-ridden Eva no longer left her bed, a pile of tubes. During the visit, however, Eva sat up chatting animatedly for hours. She died five days later.
"And what do you think we talked of, Emily?" Elisabet asked me, her eyes straining composure.
"Everything?"
"Paris. We didn't talk about our children, our work…we talked of our August in Paris."
13.10.11
| Waiting for the children. |
The clouds and cold linger. As the trees are stripped of their garments, we retreat into the folds of our dark coats and woolen socks. With one coat, two pairs of pants and my favorite boots—worn every day since I gritted my teeth and bought them—choosing what to wear in the morning has never been simpler and I leave the apartment just as happy (maybe more) as if I’d chosen my outfit from the overstocked closet awaiting my return to Dallas. Consumerism has not invaded the Parisian lifestyle. In the States, we are no longer conscious of the tyrant shoving stuff, often in bulk, down our throats, into our homes, through our minds, even into storage. I rarely see people reading the gossip magazines that appeared in France only 5 or 6 years ago. While consumerism strives to take hold of the people, another dictator has occupied the hearts and minds of some who can afford it.
| Angelina's in the 1e Said to be the best chocolate in Paris (I haven't tried it yet) |
Yesterday, my History of Fashion in Paris class visited the area just north of the Louvre. Professor Constant said it is almost impossible to walk through the streets on a Saturday because of the number of people and the height of their heels. With much pomp and scorn, an acquaintance living in the same area told him indignantly that she has never crossed over the Seine to the left bank. Unfortunately, such people typically ignore opportunities to break the stereotype. Maybe it is what they strive for.
2.10.11
Qatar Prix de l'Arc de Triomphe
| This man on the left takes social codes very seriously. |
Today at Hippodrome de Longchamp we attended free of charge (due to our hats) the Qatar Prix de l’Arc de Triomphe, one of the biggest horse racing events of the year with a purse of 4 000 000 Euros. There were nine races. The most momentous was supposed to be race 6 but for Thais and I, it was race 5.
Sara left with Karen for the train station when Thais and I made an unsuccessful endeavor to visit the stables. Nevertheless, I remained optimistic because the four of us had already been escorted into the VIP area by a friendly security guard. My straw hat and Forever XXI dress tottered awkwardly among the designer gowns and costly plumed hats of the strutting women. Eventually we managed to access the stables but after our first failed attempt, Thais and I settled outside crowded stands on the white fence at the beginning of the straightaway to watch race 5. As the eight horses stretched out for the final sprint, Number 6, Dever Dream, stumbled in front of our postion in the gravel parking lot and his yellow clad jockey leaped from his back. The bay horse alternated between sinking to his knees and rearing in pain. As an ambulance, the trainer, and the owner ran across the green to the horse, I saw the horse’s front left hoof swinging, nearly severed, from his foreleg. I watched in immoveable horror until they forced the horse down to inject him. Turning my back to face Thais’s quivering lip and equally wet and reddened eyes, I hardly noticed her fingers pinching my arm in a self-conscious effort to relieve the animal of some of his pain.| Convincing Thais to pet the horse. |
| David |
Later in the afternoon, again in the VIP section and sat despondently near the entrance of the paddock. Physically and emotionally drained, we ignored the man in the suit who plumped down nearby. After our conversations with the security guards and my previous night at Nuit Blanche Paris, Thais and I were convinced that all men here, though appearing helpful, will inevitably ask for your number or more. Ironically, “David” left us happy when guided us into the stables—he wasn’t supposed to be there either—took our pictures, and bid A bientôt without asking for our contact information. It cheered him (he lost a lot of money) to cheer us.
Nuit Blanche
| Karen, Sara, me infront of the Louvre |
| La chute des anges rebelles |
| Purple Rain |
At last, I found the epicenter of the street sculptures and installations of Nuit Blanche. By the time I found the Purple rain, it was three in the morning, the latest I've stayed out in months, and the line to walk in the rain with umbrellas was two hours long. Unfortunately, I also misunderstood the transportation options of the evening so instead of taking the metro, I walked home through the crowds of art lovers, drunks and jeers. During this walk I reflected, I am not a night life person… and that is ok.
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